Called to Serve
Modeling and embodying the culture you want is perhaps the most important duty of a healthcare leader today.
I read this comment from an editorial in the most recent edition of Healthcare Executive and immediately two reactions came to my mind-
- First, wow that is right on. Given the state of dysfunction in health care delivery in the United States that is a critical priority.
- Second, isn’t modeling and embodying the culture you want the most important duty of every leader in every industry?
As part of my work as a human resources executive, consultant, and executive coach I have been given the privilege and opportunity to speak about leadership and management on literally hundreds of occasions. I also write and blog about it extensively. It is a topic that we debate, analyze, and dissect daily. I think especially in turbulent times like we are experiencing now there is a real hunger for meaningful leadership. I think we bestow the title on a lot of people, but I am not sure they are real leaders.
Many are good stewards, they are effective managers, they lead activities as part of their job; but I think leadership means more than that. I think leaders shape cultures, embody values, role model, and prepare future generations. Some things I read this week made me contemplative as well as to whether you should seek leadership out or it seeks you?
A couple of months ago I had the opportunity to spend a day with my youngest nephew who is a serving officer in the United States Army. He is a graduate of the United States Military Academy and qualified as an airborne ranger. As we spoke he was preparing for his first deployment to Afghanistan, where he is now serving.
The conversation was an interesting one as we talked about his mental, physical, and emotional preparation for that role and he talked about his responsibility to his soldiers. That is how he described them- his soldiers. Not from a standpoint of possessiveness, but rather a sense of responsibility.
He shared with me that one of the things he had done was to contact the families of each of the families of the soldiers in his unit. If they were married he contacted their spouse, if not he contacted their parents and provided them with his personal contact information. I asked him what compelled him to do that; was it standard operating procedure or protocol. He told me it wasn’t; he just felt it was his responsibility.
He said, “I am taking these soldiers into harm’s way. I have a responsibility to them and to their families to do everything in my power to return them home safely and intact. That is my primary responsibility as their leader and officer.”
I sat back and thought about the number of leaders I have coached, worked for and with over the last three decades and how many of them ever said- “I have a responsibility to my stakeholders to lead the organization in a way that provides them with economic security and consistency with our stated values.”
I have to tell you it was a pretty short list. I have heard a lot about personal visions and missions and goals, but rarely have I heard leadership expressed in terms of responsibility to others.
These days I hear a lot about servant leadership. I am going to tell you that I don’t necessarily buy into it. I think leadership is about service, but it isn’t about serving in that fashion. I think truly effective leadership requires some qualities that I don’t equate with servitude. You may serve a vision, and ideal, or a goal, but you don’t serve individuals per se.
I think one of the qualities that you have to have to be a truly effective leader is an objectivity bordering on ruthlessness. You have to balance the needs of individuals versus a group or organization and do what serves the larger purpose.
A colleague of mine talks about the balance between two concepts that some might see as a polarity- kindness and excellence. She believes, and I agree that these concepts must be aligned; that true kindness exists only with a commitment to excellence and excellence with an appreciation and consideration for the wholeness of another person.
I have seen over my experience our reluctance to give people honest feedback about their performance, their career aspirations, and a variety of related topics. The argument I usually get is that we don’t want to discourage them or hurt their feelings. I find that somewhat disrespectful.
You and I may disagree over my assessment of your capabilities and potential, but if I deliberately withhold my observations from you I am denying you an opportunity to prove me wrong or modify your behavior or even change roles or companies. If I share my assessment with others and not you it is even more disrespectful.
I mention the prove me wrong because I have been wrong a lot in my career and in my life. I have what I consider to be pretty strong values and opinions- and I am not shy about sharing them, but I also like to believe I remain open to hearing and considering the viewpoints of others.
I found some of the remarks from departing Congresswoman Gabriel Giffords very compelling because she stated that embedding that into her personal credo was an important part of her leadership persona- she would never let the fact she disagreed with a colleague or held a different viewpoint to dissuade her from reaching across the aisle in an effort to collaborate with them.
I felt sad when Senator Olympia Snow announced she was not seeking reelection because the partisanship has become so entrenched she just didn’t have the energy to fight it anymore.
I think having strong values and standing up for them is a quality I respect in a leader. I think intolerance or the inability to appreciate or consider an alternative set of values is at best ignorance at worst a form of intellectual or emotional bullying. To return to my original quote I think leaders attract followers by embodying and modeling a set of values, not by trying to impose them on others.
I think that the best leaders are also compelled to lead. They feel something drawing them to take proactive action. They seek to proactively make things better. It isn’t about them, it is about creating an opportunity for people and organizations to change and create a more positive and worthwhile reality for everybody.
In previous writing I have referred to this particular decade as a decade of opportunity. When I see some of the things happening relative to health and health care, societal unrest, and employee engagement I hope that the evidence has become compelling enough for people to recognize that the old models don’t work and we can begin to overcome some of the inertia that has held us back.
As a professional change agent I have found my two biggest challenges to creating sustained change are overcoming that inertia and complacency and the fact that most change management methodologies want to do things to people rather than with people.
We want to use systems and technologies without doing the work to understand whole people and relationships – and so often we fail.
I have found the writings of James Secretan among others to be very inspiring to me. They have compelled me to strive to be a change agent, to be the change.
I guess as a closing thought I would ask you if you are either currently a leader or aspire to be one to think about what compels you or moves you in that direction? Is it a sense of responsibility to create meaningful change or a vehicle to reach other goals? It isn’t a moral judgment, leadership isn’t for everybody. There is nothing wrong with being highly effective at leading yourself; embracing the concepts of personal competency and aspiring no further than to be the best you that is possible.
For others I think you are called to serve. I hope you take the call. I think we need leaders today more than ever, leaders who understand the true meaning of leadership- the responsibility to model and embody the culture you see as serving the stakeholders in your organization and community.
So think about it- if called will you heed the call?
As to my nephew I think he gets it at a profound level. We aren’t done hearing from him. He has learned at a very young age what some of the finest educational institutions and industrial organizations in the world have not been able to teach generations of leaders…..








